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Determining whether your sexual interests are fetishes or simply kinky can be intriguing. Kinkiness typically involves an enthusiasm for unconventional or adventurous sexual activities, often without exclusive fixation. Fetishes, on the other hand, entail an intense, recurring attraction to specific objects, body parts, or scenarios, essential for sexual arousal. If your desires are versatile and diverse, you might lean more toward kinkiness. However, if you find one element consistently indispensable for arousal, you're likely exploring a fetish. The key lies in the intensity and exclusivity of your desires, making the distinction between a playful explorer and a devoted aficionado. Wherever you fit into the fetish/kink scale, you will find an embracing, welcoming community right here where you can meet, chat and date without judgment or discrimination.
A "kinky" person is someone who enjoys or seeks out sexual activities, fantasies, or behaviors that are considered unconventional or outside of mainstream sexual practices. Kinkiness is highly subjective and can vary from person to person. What is considered kinky to one individual may be entirely normal or uninteresting to another.
A "fetish" is a specific type of kink that involves a strong and often exclusive sexual attraction to a particular object, body part, or situation that is not typically associated with sexual arousal. Fetishes can encompass a wide range of interests, from feet (foot fetish) to leather (leather fetish) to specific articles of clothing or materials. People with fetishes often find that their sexual desires are strongly connected to these particular objects or scenarios.
Kinky dating, often referred to as FET dating amongst the fetish community is simply actively seeking out and dating people with similar sexual interests, kinks or fetishes. There are a wide range of benefits to this over meeting people on traditional or 'mainstream' dating sites. For many members of the fetish community, their urges to engage in alternative sexual practices are often stronger than their desire to be with someone who isn't into their sexual interests, leading to breakdowns of relationships or infidelity. By limiting your dating pool to people with a shared interest, whatever that may be, you give your relationship a greater chance of success and less likelihood of one of you being unfaithful with someone willing to fulfil their sexual needs.
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